This is what I feeling right now , There is already a saying which says " In the Process of valuing others you lose your value " . So, Then you might realize that the one you are valuing doesn't deserve much of your importance. Only Few follow untill their existence or your existence they are blood relations. There is no one on the earth who give as much as importance they give it for you . So just build your expectations and hopes only with them. For others you are just like one more person whom you talk daily or be with you at work. There are some relations called friendship , which feels good when you are on same page but the probability for friendship being continued forever is less than 0.5 . Even in friendship there is one more relation called close friends keep atleast 4 of them in that level , they should be your first point of reach other than family and copy that
I don't remember exactly if it was late September or early October's that I first met Varma. He was very cool and seemingly smart person. I was recently hired and got to shadow under a person called Srinivas but I spent pretty much all my time along with Varma learning few things here and there for about 7 months after when I had to change projects. Although we met on multiple occasions at tea discussing about various topics not until 2020 March, when I first spoke with him about the opportunity that I found in Walmart and I needed help. He was so helpful that I landed up with the Job without any difficulty. He guided me even with Salary negotiations and spoke with manager from his end and talked to me on the other end. He did pretty much all the hard work. It was difficult time for me with my job search then and then I said to Varma that I owe you one. Now I owe him one forever. I moved to the apartment where he used to live as he moved to new home that he bought but ever s...
Comments
Post a Comment